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Minouri
07-04-2006, 01:28 PM
Well, today was interesting.

Yesterday my neighbor was complaining about how his TWH is not eating because he's so lonely. (He's had him.....5days? a week? I'm not sure.) I felt really bad for the horse. I DO see him pacing back and forth all day long and looking over the yard at our horses.

He said he was going to get a free horse to keep as a companion but wasn't sure if he could afford all the expenses.

I talked to Tony about it and we offered to let his horse visit during the day with our horses. We've got about an acre and 1/2 fenced off right now (albiet temporary fencing) and let our boys run free during the day.

Last night we introduced the horses and all seemed pretty calm.

He put in horse in the paddock today (went to work) at 7 am and all heck let loose.

Snowy....my 22 year old mostly blind horse (he can see better in the bright light of the day) decided to run that new young horse around. I thought the game would end but he ran both the new horse and Scooter for over an hour.....down to one end of the yard.....ran them up and threw the round pen which has two sides open......back down to the pasture in the back and then around again. It didn't stop.

It was probably calm last night because Snowy can't see from Dusk to Dawn. Now that I think about it. He didn't leave the round pen to even check out the new horse. Only Scooter did.

So I'm standing there deciding what I'm going to do and.....

Then my neighbor who helps out with the horses came over and was all upset that we had the neighbor's horse in our yard. He does a lot for us (pulling Tony out of ditches when he gets the tractor stuck.....putting the horses away when it storms) but I couldn't really understand the outrage. Course, these people have known each other for decades. We're the new element here.

I didn't like being told to tell my neighbor to keep his horse in his own yard. On the other hand, I didn't like the potential injuries that could come from three horses running around a lot where wer'e still building paddocks...not to mention our horses don't test our fencing but they don't tend to run around either.

In the end I put the new horse back in his paddock next door. I'll tell my neighbor that it didn't work out.

I guess eventually new lines will have to be drawn between us and our horseless neighbor. I really like him and really appreciate what he does for us......but I also don't want him to think that he has a say in what goes on in our yard. We are allowed horses here and could have another if we wanted......our variance only allows two in the barn (because of how close it is to the neighbor's yard) but that has nothing to do with the back area. I think he thinks we can only have two horses period.

I was well on my way to deciding that having another horse here that doesn't belong to me was too big of a responsibility.....but I don't want to be told not to do it.

Neighbors. So far so good with the new place and new neighbors.....I hope this isn't a sign of things to come.

Barbwire
07-04-2006, 01:34 PM
Ruthie, just let your neighbor get another critter to keep his horse company. You don't need conflict between your horses or the other neighbor right now. Now wasn't that simple?

Minouri
07-04-2006, 01:36 PM
Giving Barb a big gooey Kiss!

Yep, problem solved! Less stress it better!

Barbwire
07-04-2006, 01:39 PM
Right back at ya, babycheeks! http://www.jammerbabe.com/flotilla/images/smiles/biglips215.gif

appyday
07-04-2006, 01:50 PM
I'm kissin Barb too :razz:

JennLM
07-04-2006, 01:56 PM
Sorry your neighbor is being a putz. Liking ones neighbors is a big deal I am finding out and can't wait to get away from my non-horse ones.

I wouldn't like being told what to do by a neighbor. (Or being told we sent her to the hospital for a week because of the horse smell-gosh I hate non-horse people)

Looks like a line is forming to smooch Barb. Guess I better start selling rights to air it on cable and make a fortune.

Barbwire
07-04-2006, 02:04 PM
Shelley, no tongue, no tongue! Jenn, my lips are quite busy, people are just going to have to kiss me somewhere else. :twisted:

JennLM
07-04-2006, 02:08 PM
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v92/JennLM/smileys/signpervert.gif

Barbwire
07-04-2006, 02:35 PM
I meant the back of my hand, PERVERT!

Minouri
07-04-2006, 03:11 PM
I thought she meant her big........toe?

Linda Y
07-04-2006, 03:38 PM
And when the horses finally got to accept each other, the TWH would have to go home for the night, and the next day it would start all over again. So tiring.
Tell him to get a pony of something for his horse.
Neighbors...we think our elder neighbors are readying their house to sell. They are non-horse people, but we get along great. Our houses are fairly close together because ours was built close to the property line by the former owner. I can just barely tolerate the thought of their place selling to some redneck yahoo with 22 kids and dogs. Of course it could be nice people, but our track record hasn't run in that direction. I wish WE could buy it!

Mona Lisa
07-04-2006, 03:51 PM
Two years ago my friends purchased a mini horse from the auction to keep their horses company. I thought they were crazy - because they didn't need another animal. But turns out they have 4 pasos - two geldings in one pasture, and two girls in another - so when they have to pull one out to use for riding or take to a show they can put this mini in the pasture to keep the lone horse company. This has actually worked out very well.

Purhaps your neighbor could find a small horse to keep his walker company. It worked for my friend.

Mona

Monty
07-04-2006, 04:03 PM
You couldn't close a gate and have them just next to each other ?
On the other hand - we wouldn't have let a strange horse in with ours for at least 3 weeks - but we tend to be overprotective , or so we have been told :roll:
If that horse can "see" the others - it should settle down - but he should get a companion animal ,soon.

motorgypsy
07-04-2006, 04:06 PM
We vote for the mini also. Our two have been great companions for injured horses and for our stallion and colt.

Minouri
07-05-2006, 11:03 AM
Barb, come here so I can kiss you again. Simple advice is sometimes the best. I just told him it wasn't working out. He took it really well and is now looking for a companion.

Easy.

Barbwire
07-05-2006, 11:18 AM
Kiss away Ruthie, babeee! :razz:

DebbieS
07-06-2006, 04:10 PM
Good idea, Barb. A mini would be best, if he is worried about feed costs (they eat less).

We have an old QH gelding that is everyone's babysitter. When Listo was stalled last winter, he was the babysitter. When we get a new horse, he's the babysitter. He is very easy-going. Never hurts anyone, and doesn't care if he's not with the rest of the herd.

Good luck with your neigbors, Ruth! Our closest neighbor is over a hill and 1/4 mile away and we like it that way ;-)