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Privatetreaty
08-28-2006, 11:58 AM
World's Oldest Woman Dies at 116
Published: 8/28/06, 7:25 AM EDT

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QUITO, Ecuador (AP) - Maria Esther de Capovilla, considered the world oldest person, has died in her native Ecuador, her granddaughter said Monday. At 116, she was born the same year as Charlie Chaplin and married the year the U.S. entered World War I.

An American woman, Elizabeth Bolden of Memphis, Tenn., is now the oldest known person alive, according to Guinness World Records. She is also 116 - but 11 months younger than Capovilla.

"For all practical purposes, the next oldest person is going to be presumed to be Elizabeth Bolden," said Robert Young, a senior consultant on gerontology for Guinness World Records.

Capovilla died early Sunday, two days after she came down with pneumonia, in a hospital in the coastal city of Guayaquil, said Catherine Capovilla, a property manager and real estate agent in Miami. A funeral was planned for Monday.

She was born on Sept. 14, 1889, the same year as Chaplin and Adolf Hitler. She was married in 1917 and widowed in 1949, the year Berlin split into East and West.

Capovilla was confirmed as the oldest living person on Dec. 9, 2005, after her family sent details of her birth and marriage certificates to the British-based publisher. Emiliano Mercado Del Toro of Puerto Rico retains the title as oldest man. He turned 115 last Monday.

Three of Capovilla's five children - Irma, Hilda, and son Anibal - are still alive, along with 12 grandchildren, 20 great-grandchildren and two great-great grandchildren, Catherine Capovilla told The Associated Press in a telephone interview.

Capovilla was from a well-to-do family that traced its lineage to Spanish nobility, and her father was a colonel in Ecuador's army.

When she was young, she liked to embroider, paint, play piano and dance the waltz at parties, the family said. She was married to Antonio Capovilla, an Austrian sailor who came to Ecuador in 1910.

She always ate three meals a day and never smoked or drank hard liquor. "Only a small cup of wine with lunch and nothing more," Irma told the AP in December.

For the past 20 years, Capovilla had lived with elder daughter Hilda. Her calm disposition may have been the secret to her longevity.

"She always had a very tranquil character," Irma said in last year's interview. "She does not get upset by anything. She takes things very calmly and she has been that way her whole life."

Soon after celebrating her 100th birthday in 1989, Capovilla became bedridden with a stomach ailment. She got so weak a priest administered last rites.

Fervently religious, Capovilla took communion every Friday, and always joined the family for meals, often enjoying lentils and chicken for lunch, which she ate unassisted with fork and knife in small bites.

Capovilla liked to watch television, and read newspaper headlines, with some difficulty, but never with glasses. She had not been able to leave the house for nearly two years before Guinness World Records recognized her as the oldest person.

In recent years, she had become less communicative as her hearing declined and her memory began to fade, her family said. But she seemed healthy enough.

"Her family was expecting to have a 117th birthday party," said Young, speaking from Atlanta. "They had recently said that she was in good shape."

Young said Capovilla's claim to the title as oldest person was particularly significant because of the wealth of documentation proving her age, including baptismal and marriage records.

"Many times people claim to be extreme ages, however, often their age is either not verifiable or is fictitious," he said. "Even in the United States, we had a woman who claimed to be 118, and we investigated. It turned out she was 109."

The oldest person ever whose age was authenticated, according to Guinness, was a woman named Jeanne Louise Calment, who lived to 122 years and 164 days. She was born in France on Feb. 21, 1875, and died at a nursing home in Arles in southern France on Aug. 4, 1997.

CarolU
08-28-2006, 12:54 PM
Not THAT long. ;-)

Interesting article. What changes she has seen in her lifetime. She is from Ecuador, that is different. I remember reading an article about an area in Russia where many people lived into their hundred-teens. The place was at a high altitude and the people had been there for generations, great lung capacity and lung to heart ratio.

Carol Nelson
08-28-2006, 01:13 PM
Very interesting article. As far as how long....not so much as to how many years...but quality of life. Once my body starts to shut down to the point of not being able to do the most simple of things as read or enjoy television or take short walks or get myself a cup of coffee, then I am ready to go. I dread being bedridden and diaper laden and having to put my family through the burdensome task of caring for my every need. I guess that's why I'm kind of glad that heart attacks run in both sides of my family...hopefully it will be slam, bamm...and I'll be gone before I hit the ground...probably running after and yelling at one of my naughty horses! :lol:

Carol Nelson
08-28-2006, 01:16 PM
Can I encompass on the original question and add my own..."Are you afraid to die?" I guess it's not the being dead that scares me...it's the dying process, like I said above...let's git it over with fast! :smile:

CarolU
08-28-2006, 02:06 PM
That's an interesting question, because yes, the manner of death is scary. I wouldn't want to drown or die in a fire. If things got very bad, I would like to choose humane euthanasia.

I have been in so much pain, twice, that I welcomed death to end it. Once was an acute apendicitis and the second was an acute bowel obstruction (caused by adhesions formed after the apendicits). I survived both surgeries, but believe me, at the time, I didn't care, I just wanted out of pain.

So no, the thought of death is not scary, just the means.

PASOFAN
08-28-2006, 02:19 PM
I am not affraid to die, never will be, My god and savior promises me life eternal and I am confident in my faith, not affraid.. :D However I dont want to be in pain when I die...

She sure was old, I really dont know or care how long I live, but I would like to own a ranch in the mtns before I die.. ;-)

Monty
08-28-2006, 04:57 PM
My Mom went the way I want to whenever the time comes - aortic anyeurism - went to sleep and was gone !
She was 91 1/2 when she died ,and use to giggle at the fact when she was in school they were teaching atoms couldn't be split and they were just starting to do it then!
She use to tell all the changes that had taken place - it was really fun to listen to her - but now "I" see how much has happened since I was young - almost scarey how fast things have evolved .
My Dad died of a heart attack in 1968 ,age 53 - when they were just starting to do open heart surgery - he had been treated for "years" for bursistis of the shoulder - (pain in the shoulder area) - his autopsy showed he had previous heart attacks :roll: Have to wonder if he would have had a long life if they had been aware of what they are now in the medical field!
:lol: This makes me feel OLD - I actually remember party lines on a rotary phone and everyone thinking a private line was so great !

DebbieS
08-28-2006, 05:41 PM
Sounds like she had a great life and didn't have any of the problems that are usually associated with old age. That would be wonderful. I would never want to live out my days in a nursing home, being cared for by strangers....

When the time comes, I want to go quickly! Maybe a heart-attack while I'm out on my horse riding one of my favorite trails.... like the guy on Baggar Vance - he was playing golf though. I thought that was a perfect way to go.... doing what he loved to do.

JennLM
08-28-2006, 06:01 PM
Already been there and back after my pulmonary embolism and figured if it was my time, I would have stayed gone. I figured I had too much to do with our rescues to go that soon and guess I was right.

I do agree quality of life is important. My grandfather had all his wits about him but his body failed due to smoking his whole life and getting Enphacema (sp?). I want to go quick and painless. But then those who know they are passing can prepare for their family and animals before they go.

Dianne
08-29-2006, 04:29 AM
I forget how old I am :lol: And Carol , I will ask Becky to add you to her "list" if you like..so we dont suffer Pureed food, Diapers or pain :D

andrea
08-29-2006, 02:01 PM
I took care of both of my parents while they were parting from this world to be with GOd. They both suffered alot. They we both Christian and were looking forward to being with GOd. But mother was afraid of the dying process. She so just wanted to go into her sleep. But it didn't happen.

I do not want to put my children through what I went through taking care of them. Hopefully when I do not have a quality of life at whatever age I will pass on. And yes, I am afraid of the dying process also.

I believe in humanely putting down any animal that is suffering. I think alot of us are better to animals then what society is to the dying. I would of loved to of put mother to sleep humanely then to watch her suffer. And I would like to be put asleep humanely then suffer.

I was so upset this week with a amish friend down the road. He had a old Belguim that work for 25 years for him. He asked me how much the shot was to put him down. Last time i spoke with him he took the belguim to the kill pen in Ships, Indiana. That old guy gave his whole life for these people and they couldn't pay a few bucks(in which they have) to put him down. He was totally blind. All I could think of was what he went through before he got to the kill factory. I wish I would of taken him and put him down. But the amish would of wanted me to pay them killer price. I bought a standardbred off of a amish that was going to the killer pen. Gave her to a friend on the internet. With all the amish around me I would go broke if I keep doing this. Quess I got off of the topic a bit. Just venting a bit.

Privatetreaty
08-29-2006, 03:08 PM
I believe in humanely putting down any animal that is suffering. I think alot of us are better to animals then what society is to the dying. I would of loved to of put mother to sleep humanely then to watch her suffer. And I would like to be put asleep humanely then suffer.




I couldn't agree with you more Andrea.
While some would consider it a sin, I've always said that I don't want to "induced" or prolong a life if I can't think and eat the way I do today. I just want to you go the "big pasture" in the sky.


I had fear of dying, until I saw Shirley MacLaine's movie years ago. I want to believe that the difference between dying and dreaming is that silvery string that attaches to our body as we sleep. When we die, according to her experience, the silvery string is detached and we are finally truly free. Maybe somebody remembers the name of the movie. Besides, when people have had near death experiences, they've all come back to tell of a very pleasant, life changing experience.


Some folks will always regard animals as "just animals".
They've been "conditioned" to think this way and regrettably, there's nothing we can do about it.

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